Growing Up Hip Hop: Atlanta S1E3 Recap


I was looking for a juicy new show to get into on Thursday nights and Growing Up Hip Hop: Atlanta is it. I was sucked in on the cast alone. Lil’ Wayne’s daughter Reginae. Bow Wow. Zonnique – T.I. & Tiny’s daughter. And a few I wasn’t familiar with: Ms. Deb’s son Brandon, DJ Hurricane’s daughter Ayana and Jermaine Dupri’s daughter Shaniah. Was that first episode enough to keep me tuning in every Thursday tho? OH YES. THE DRAMA IS REAL. 

On Episode 3, Bow Down To Your Mother – Ms. Deb checks TF outta Brandon. He don’t wanna hear it. He had no business policing Nique Nique’s outfit and going in on Reginae. He knew better but he did it anyway. Ms. Deb basically like you don’t want war with Lil’ Wayne. I’m concerned that Brandon knows nothing about females. He didn’t have to go there with Zonnique or Reginae. I’ll just say it now: I JUST DON’T LIKE BRANDON. 

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My 13 Reasons Why Story

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There was a time when I wanted to kill myself. 

This is the first time I’ve ever said that publicly. You have questions, I know. I mostly keep things light hearted here and leave the heavy conversations on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram. I mean…How do we even talk about suicide? The truth is, we don’t. Let’s be real, these are things we never ever talk about. The culture basically sweeps mental health under the rug and we’re given a prescription to pray. Pray it away. Pray to be better. Pray. Nope. Life doesn’t work like that. We need to have these conversations with our kids and Netflix’s 13 Reasons Why opens the door to these conversations. 

This time in my life all went down when I was in high school. I hated high school. You can check my school records, I ditched almost all the time. So much so that in order to graduate, I had to do 0 period to 9th period. Being a teenager is the worst if you are left to your own devices. The loneliness is real. I felt weird in my skin. I felt awkward. I felt like I was constantly letting down my family with my choices. I locked myself in the bathroom for hours. I cried myself to sleep. I didn’t know if this was normal. I didn’t know WTF was wrong with me. My parents were disciplinarians first and over anything. I couldn’t talk to them about anything. Especially not my feelings. We just didn’t do feelings. We weren’t that family.

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A Modern Family Dinner Story


For a good two years of my childhood, I had a standing date with my parents. Almost every Wednesday night, like clockwork, we would go out to dinner at a chain restaurant because kids eat free. I remember this vividly because this happened in the time before my 12th birthday. Before I aged out of the restaurant’s promotion. It was something I enjoyed too because dinner wasn’t rushed and stressful and I didn’t have to do dishes but because my parents actually enjoyed dinner. They both worked 9 hour days, 5 days a week and had to commute to their jobs. I didn’t get it till I was a parent raising my own children at what a luxury dining out actually is. And when you work freelance like me and my husband do, getting out of the house and having good food on a budget is everything.

Denny’s makes that happen more often than not for us. Always open, kids eat free, $2 $4 $6 $8 menu but the pièce de résistance is actual sit down, face to face, quality time with my family. We go over our day and have real conversation. The kids enjoy our once a month standing dinner date at Denny’s. I know this because they ask about it. We started putting a calendar up so they know exactly when we’re going. It is one thing we all look forward to these days. 

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Denny’s $2 $4 $6 $8 Menu


Disclosure: I love working with Denny’s, this is my 3rd year as an ambassador. If you don’t know now you know!

I’m going through a phase in my life right now where I don’t want to cook or commit to everything that comes with it. Grocery shopping, doing dishes, NOPE. I like going out to eat but you know, my budget doesn’t always allow for that. Living that freelance life. I make room in the budget for dining out once a week the way Denny’s is set up…they make it really easy to dine out a few times a week. Really really easy. Check it out, we spent $16 for four of us on Tuesday. You can’t even eat at a fast food restaurant for that these days. The kids ate FREE and we attempted the $2 $4 $6 $8 menu

I actually have a funny story about that. What I really wanted to order was the $8 Southern Chicken Slugger but the Universe was like nope, you want the Grand Slam Slugger cause that’s what I got. I didn’t send it back – it looked so good and I don’t waste food. I never say no to the new Denny’s pancakes and the Universe knows this. 

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The Ultimate Mega Play Date With Nick Jr. And


I was compensated for attending this event sponsored by Nick Jr. and The thoughts and opinions below are my own.

I live for Sunday Fundays. It is what I like to do. It never occurred to me that I mostly plan Sunday Fundays for me and my husband and not the kids. I can look back at weeks worth of Sundays and it is all about eating good food and looking at art or some form of shopping. Swap meets. Antique malls. Flea markets. Sure the kids learn from our outings but it isn’t really their idea of fun. Whoops! I’m not even sure I’ve ever planned a fun, free day with only the four year old in mind. My bad! I have got to do better.

The Universe must have really wanted a Sunday Funday for my Omar because we got an invite to The Ultimate Mega Play Date from Nick Jr. and My kid was in for a Blaze and the Monster Machines surprise! I was low-key thrilled for Shimmer and Shine! I’m such a fan. We got to the Petersen Auto Museum and he was like “where am I?” We laughed and told him to just have fun. It was his day.

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Stouffer’s Is A Real Option


This is a sponsored conversation written by me on behalf of Stouffer’s. The opinions and text are all mine.


I love me some lasagna but I don’t want to cook it. Lasagna is difficulty level: NOT FOR ME. There is way too much involved in making lasagna and right now I choose to hit the easy button. The last thing I want to do is put in work in the kitchen after working all day. I really don’t want to cook but dinner can’t always be “mom boiled water and threw it in a cup” or “here’s a sandwich”. I want to feed my family better but can better be easy and good for you? Real questions I have. Stouffer’s is a real option. 

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Full Moon Signs

Full Moon release

I woke up this morning and saw my domain expired. The GoDaddy this domain expired page was up and everything. I knew the renewal was coming but I made no effort to pay. I tend to live life like that these days. And then I remembered I was doing this blogging daily thing in November and wanted to get my blog back up immediately. I pulled up to pay and couldn’t remember my password. Of course! I tweeted about the tragedy but wasn’t freaking out like I usually do. This is how it played out on Twitter. Gifs make everything better. 

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A Star Wars Halloween


Bless my husband. He always handles Halloween costumes for the kids. Duke wanted to be Kylo Ren and Omar wanted to be Darth Vader. Grandson and grandpa. We got both their costumes for under $30 total. I think they’ll be holding onto these forever though!

This year was the first year we didn’t do any pre-Halloween fun. The kids were burnt out for the past couple years and it was a sad reality that sometimes blogger kids do way too much. Halloween is my fave and I wanted them to enjoy it just like I did so when Omie was super excited that “tomorrow is Halloween, mom” my heart exploded at my decision. We had lunch with my grandbaby + his mama at John’s Incredible Pizza and then we went trick-or-treating at the mall. It was a good day. I want to be a cat next year. KTHXBI! 

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Treat Your Homegirl


I preach a lot about treating yourself. You should. All the time. But you should make it a point to treat your homegirls too. (Maybe you already do?) Like when Sad Girl bought Mousie a necklace. I’m not saying throw down big money but if you are out together getting coffee, hook her up every once in awhile. If you live close, stop by with homemade cookies. Or if you are like me and my girls who all live far from each other, drop something in the mail. Or when you see each other, pay for a round of dranks. It feels good to do it that’s why. And it makes her feel good too. 

My girl Lisa in Phoenix bought me lunch at Keisei Yuzen while I was on a layover in Japan by the magic of technology. Terminal 1 in Narita Airport. I ordered me a melon soda, tempura set + chicken yakitori. Thanks, Lisa! Love you xoxo

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Beyond Blogging

I’m me before I’m a blogger. Me being a mom, wife, homegirl, healer, dreamer. 

(I had intentions for this post but I got all jacked up with cramps last night. So it was cramps, Cops + Cherry Garcia)

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